I look on Face book and Instagram and see all these postings
about Christmas—decorating, lights, parties, crying toddlers on Santa’s lap,
stressed comments about shopping and “getting it all done”, cooking and baking
and watching Elf. There is just so much to DO during this time of year. But in
the Loy house, it is a very simple Christmas this year. A few poinsettias on the front porch, a toned
down décor for the table and the mantel-- no Christmas lights, no tree, no
shopping, no baking, no Christmas cards to send. There is something quite liberating about
having a simplistic Christmas. While it
may not seem very merry and jolly when you look at my house, the true meaning
of Christmas is still very present in the hearts of each of us in the Loy household. Instead of stressing about shopping and
parking and lines and finances, we are having family meals together and watching
movies and playing basketball and
snuggling with our dogs. Instead of making long grocery lists and stuffing our
refrigerator full with unnecessary food and wine, we are eating quesadillas and
grilled cheese and soup so as to not waste food in our cupboards. Instead of
waking up with the anxiety of a “to do” list, I wake up to my journal, my Bible
and a cup of tea. I read again about the
humble birth of Jesus, who entered our world, not as a king, a rich man, or a
politician, but simply lying as a babe in a manger. I think of the quiet joy of
that night and the implications it had for our world. And I meditate on what it
means that the Savior came, he taught, he died on a cross for you and me, He
was resurrected and so He lives, and He will come again, making all things new.
We have gone simple
this year because we have chosen to do something non traditional. Instead of
packages, ribbons, and bows, we traded shopping and gifts in for a family
cruise. Back in July when I was high on
chemo drugs, I was in my “YOLO—let’s live life to the fullest” phase. Thinking ahead to when this cancer journey
was over, I booked a “celebratory” cruise for our family. My good intentions had us travelling the
Caribbean over Christmas to say goodbye to cancer and 2013. Though my
intentions were normal for a cancer patient, my timing wasn’t perfect. What I didn’t know was that my recovery would
be longer and harder than I expected, that I would be having a second surgery,
and that I might have more chemotherapy after that. What I didn’t expect was that our medical
bills would be extravagant even with the blessing of insurance, and even though
the tumors are out, the journey is not over.
Now a cruise, mind you, is anything but simple. In fact, I have been on a cruise before and I
have to admit—it is hard to watch the gluttony and the waste and the
extravagant spending of some passengers.
After going to Africa two years in a row, I vowed that we would never go
on a cruise again—it just didn’t settle well with my value system and my use of
money. But, family time is important, and with Noah’s sports schedule limiting
our family vacations, and getting to more destinations in one week than just
visiting one place, I went for it. I
have had my share of regrets—can we afford it (no), is this the best time in my
recovery (no), will we miss friends and family at Christmas (yes). But as we get closer, and we talk about the
snorkeling we will do on Roatan, and the Land Rover and Cave expedition on
Belize and the mopeds we will rent in Cozumel, I begin to think about the
family times we will have, the experiences we will share together, and the
memories we will create. Whenever I talk
to my sons about their favorite holidays—they never mention a gift or a
material item, but always start with…”Remember when we…..” did something as a
family.
So, as we approach Christmas this year, I challenge you to
make something a little simpler for yourself.
Make your to do list a little shorter, your menu a little lighter, your
commitments a little easier. Vow to ask
yourself—“why am I really doing this?”
Because I have to? Because it is “tradition”, because “we have always
done it this way?”
While we will miss the neighborhood visits and going to
church on Christmas eve, and the excitement of Christmas morning with a fire,
and the turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pie, we will be cruising—sun bathing,
exploring, eating lobster on Isla Mahogany on Christmas Day, and being as non
traditional as possible. My boys won’t
be talking about the presents they got and they won’t be tossing aside a gadget
that has no interest for them within a few weeks. But hopefully they will be talking about the “presence”
they had with their family, the “presence” of Jesus in their hearts as their
Savior, and the simple joys of creating lifetime memories.
Over the next week, I encourage you to put down the wrapping
paper, skip that last minute trip to the store, and create some treasured moments
with those you love. Whether it is around the family tree, in a cabin in the snow, in a hut in Uganda, at an orphanage in Haiti, or on a tropical island, focus on people and not presents. Set aside time to praise Jesus and thank him for the gift He gave us--Himself. Focus on why we really celebrate this season, for even though He came humbly-He is anything but simple—He
is name above all names, wonderful counselor, prince of peace, and glorious
King.
3 comments:
Kirsten this touched my heart. I think talking so much about Jesus brought out your best in writing and connecting. Beautiful! I am having a simple Christmas too and loving it.
What a beautiful gift your letter is. We do get crazy and forget the Reason for the Season and this is a beautiful way to remind us about the importance of family and Christ our Savior. May his blessings be on you and your family. I will miss seeing you all, you are in my prayers.
Ngày nay trên thị trường nội thất có nhiều thương hiệu sản phẩm nội thất khác nhau như Hòa Phát, The City….với nhiều mẫu mã sản phẩm cũng như chất liệu nhằm đáp ứng tất cả nhu cầu của khách hàng. Nên khi bạn có nhu cầu mua bàn làm việc hòa phát hay những sản phẩm nội thất khác bạn sẽ dễ dàng tìm được nhà cung cấp cho phù hợp với nhu cầu của bạn. Và hôm nay chúng tôi giúp bạn cách chọn mua được mẫu bàn làm việc cho văn phòng tốt nhất:
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Giống như chất liệu làm các nội thất khác như bàn giám đốc cao cấp, vách ngăn di động. Về chất liệu, bàn được thiết kế với chất liệu cao cấp, chất lượng phù hợp với khí hậu nóng ẩm của Việt Nam, đồng thời một số loại bàn còn có khả năng chống cháy, chống mối mọt, ẩm mốc. Mặt bàn thường được làm từ chất liệu gỗ công nghiệp cao cấp như melamine, laminate, MDF… với nhiều tính năng bền đẹp, chắc. Cạnh bàn thiết kế kiểu uốn con tạo nên sự mềm mại cho người sử dụng và tránh bị tổn thương khi va chạm vào góc nhọn. Ngoài bàn ra thì ghe van phong cũng là thiết bị không thể thiếu trong văn phòng làm việc của bạn và cách chọn mẫu ghế như thế nào để có sự kết hợp hài hòa giữa bàn và ghế, không gian nội thất văn phòng. Tạo cảm giác thoải mái cho nhân viên trong thời gian ngồi làm việc tại công ty.
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